It's not me...

There are times when I can hardly walk. When I just take a couple of steps and I fall over.  Most of these times are at home, with family but some are not.

Sometimes I may be out late with friends and my co-ordination fails me.  And I feel like I want to tell them, that this is not me, that my life is not like this.  That I am ok.  That everything is ok.  But clearly it isn't.  And I worry about them.  About how they see me.  Because this is not me, or at least, I don't want it to be.  But at times it is.

There are other times when my medication takes over.  When I can hardly control the involuntary movements in my legs.  When I kick and writhe more and more with every thought.  And I may be sitting at a table eating with friends trying desperately not to kick them, or in a meeting at work.  And I want to hide.  But I cannot hide what is happening to me.  I cannot hide it any more than I can control it.  And I am embarrassed because this is not me.  But somehow, now, it is.

Don't get me wrong, I celebrate every day I have on this planet and the joys it brings.  I celebrate the medication that is somehow out of control and yet shields me from pain.  But there is a part of me that wants to scream out from somewhere deep inside.  That I am so much more than this.  So that everyone can understand.  But deep down, I know everyone understands, but no one can change it.

It's just hard to accept that, for now, this is me.

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